Do the
Indian Parents love their daughter or they do not know what love is? I know
people would find me cold and dark or may be a threat that I do talk things
which may break the Family. However, you
should not judge me or anyone without paying heed to what is being spoken. The
problem with me is that I am no longer convinced the dreamy inheritance of
foolish logics, and I keep my eyes open where I observe what is going around.
Is love attributed to the prison or jail? When
it comes to liberating their daughters, they consider that liberty is an
illness. We are so proud of our culture,
indeed claimed thousands of times that women are respected. Is it? The land
where daughter is sold for money? Oh please, if you haven’t seen this you might
have not visited the eastern part of countries and the state of Bengal and
Bihar etc.
From other
states men, who don’t get married, they buy women for themselves. This is how
we domesticate our women. Not only that, birth of a girl is a like family has
got new animal slave. Domesticated as an animal and at every step she is reminded
that she should know it, do it, or else her mother in law would throw out
of her home, or husband would not be pleased.
Why should
a husband be pleased like an authority? Marriage was supposed to be- to be there
for each other in every up and down, and it should not work like government.
Parents
would love to get their daughter married more than noticing about her
happiness, and that is how they show their love. I have attended various
marriages and if you look at mostly married couples who are attending their
wedding ceremonies are only one who seem the most upset or either of them is
actually, this is sarcastically funny and humiliating.
The only
one form of bullying is used by parents is always we brought you in the world.
So? If you brought us in the world, you did know that a specific sperm will get
the genetic information from mother and rest millions are going to die in vain.
Is this how you planned the birth of a daughter? I respect all parents who
deserve but respect can’t be imposed on generations. I understand the altruistic feelings of
parents that they raised us well, and they should be supported in their old age
but for fulfilling their wishes means one has no right to even decide for
herself, which of the person she wants to live with?
Story does
not here, if some girls even try to raise a voice or take stand, so there are
numerous curse for some or emotional torture in for of blackmail ,-“You father
/grandmother / this and that are heart patient, going to die if you do this”
Now,
generations after generations tolerated this emotional blackmail and killed all
the dreams they had and still the lectures that they were so great son and
daughter does not end. First thing one
has rights to have sex with whosoever one wants, but this concept is too modern
for some so at least have respect that your daughter has some ambition about
career, and she does not want to waste this precious life.
She is an
individual and a wonderful human being, let her grow, let her shine. As a
conclusive note I can say that the way you love the woman, please stop. If this is the love, I would rather prefer
hatred over it, where at least you admit that you hate this gender and ruining
lives because you are insecure. That seems genuine but not this love. Rights should be persevered of every
Individual, and there is no other greater approach than being humanist and
thinking for every human being equally.
-Namrata
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