A man gets promotion because he works
hard and a woman? What about her? This is how a conversation goes often.
“She got the
promotion because she slept with the boss”,
“Actresses
are Prostitutes.. You know, she is the keep of him… ”,
“How come
is he helping her without gaining anything…? I do not buy this argument. ”
I heard
many times and my blood boiled. Why do every morality, every promotion, every
success and every growth revolve around the sex? There may be a part of women
population who might trade their vagina for gaining something in corporate
world or in any other industry. However, on what ground the entire race of
women actresses stand in the category of prostitutes? Every strong girl faced such accusations at
one or another point of time but not men.
These people,
who appear so civilized often wrapped into branded clothes. I include both-men
and women. Why do they often seek for sexual pleasure from the employees instead
of their work? These incidents are so visible but still none confirms it.
How does a
society work? At one side, there is a huge cry that we respect our women. However, Where does it happen?
If a woman
asks for help from men, mostly men think of getting the sexual pleasure. Some men
are fine individuals; they help in normal way too. What is so offensive about
it? Even if in reality it does not go physical. Why is it created in mind that
something was physical.
What is the
definition of morality here? If a woman is single, there must be something
wrong with her. Why is it assumed always that wrong thing or some fault in the
woman compels her for staying single? What about her brain and desire of
future, she looked for herself?
When you
try to highlight such issues of society, people start judging. They think they
are your reasons. This makes me sick. You do not need to face the murder to
condemn the murder. This is very simple. Yes, this is a segment of the society,
and I condemn being a part of it. Gossips are not fun; they might be a reason
for harassment for some.
The truth
is that people are obsessed with their gender.
Gender gap has been maintained for thousands of years, and both have
been sex deprived. They forgot that relations without sex are important, and
you need not to bring sex while talking to opposite gender. This is normally
human to human interaction. If two individuals want to have sex, none can stop
it. It is their personal life, what they do in their bed rooms. Who are you to
judge? Or declaring someone’s character after neglecting totally the hard work an individual puts to complete the task.
A woman reaches
on top because she works hard as man does. It is the ability to carry the
business. People may give lucrative offers so that a lady compromises. Why do
they give such offers? Not many fields remain untouched. When it comes to sales, do you think
prostitution helps in raising the sales of the organization? Some people who
themselves have a dirty mind cast a slur on other’s character. This is not what
a woman does. This is what you are, and how much filth remains in your mind in
spite of all the degrees. The mind still remains uneducated and unwise.
If prostitution
is all you need, why not to hire direct from the ‘Kotha’. What is the need for
troubling an educated woman and degrade her values. Stop making a woman the sex symbol, Please!
There have been women like human computer Shakuntala Devi, Kalpana Chawla etc.
who showed their ability and disapproved these sick ideologies.
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